Thursday, January 7, 2010

Curse that Cursive Writing

Initially we used "Handwriting Without Tears" for cursive handwriting, back when they were in 3rd and 4th grade (age wise). Over the years I have not forced cursive handwriting and since neither Marly nor Chris LIKE cursive handwriting it is not something they use very often. It has come to the point where I am making it an assignment to do some copywork so that they do not loose the skill all together. (See the book "Leadership Education" pg. 140-143 - Ingredient #45 - The Assignment)

A few years ago we used some curriculum from Discover the Scriptures. One of the files on the CD they send with the 4-7th grade disc has copywork in cursive of various scriptures which I allow them to choose which verse to practice that week. Anyone who knows me KNOWS I like freebies, so here is a link to some free Bible Verses at Guest Hollows - you can choose several styles of handwriting, including D'Nelian or Handwriting Without Tears.

So, how to make it fun or inspiring?  For Chris, I am looking for some additional fun in helping him to write jokes in cursive and about cursive. Marly is naturally challenged by perfecting a skill.

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Why the healthcare bills are unconstituional...

Here is the source from the Wall Street Journal: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748703278604574624021919432770.html
President Obama's health-care bill is now moving toward final passage. The policy issues may be coming to an end, but the legal issues are certain to continue because key provisions of this dangerous legislation are unconstitutional. Legally speaking, this legislation creates a target-rich environment. We will focus on three of its more glaring constitutional defects.

First, the Constitution does not give Congress the power to require that Americans purchase health insurance. Congress must be able to point to at least one of its powers listed in the Constitution as the basis of any legislation it passes. None of those powers justifies the individual insurance mandate. Congress's powers to tax and spend do not apply because the mandate neither taxes nor spends. The only other option is Congress's power to regulate interstate commerce.

Congress has many times stretched this power to the breaking point, exceeding even the expanded version of the commerce power established by the Supreme Court since the Great Depression. It is one thing, however, for Congress to regulate economic activity in which individuals choose to engage; it is another to require that individuals engage in such activity. That is not a difference in degree, but instead a difference in kind. It is a line that Congress has never crossed and the courts have never sanctioned.

In fact, the Supreme Court in United States v. Lopez (1995) rejected a version of the commerce power so expansive that it would leave virtually no activities by individuals that Congress could not regulate. By requiring Americans to use their own money to purchase a particular good or service, Congress would be doing exactly what the court said it could not do.

Some have argued that Congress may pass any legislation that it believes will serve the "general welfare." Those words appear in Article I of the Constitution, but they do not create a free-floating power for Congress simply to go forth and legislate well. Rather, the general welfare clause identifies the purpose for which Congress may spend money. The individual mandate tells Americans how they must spend the money Congress has not taken from them and has nothing to do with congressional spending.

A second constitutional defect of the Reid bill passed in the Senate involves the deals he cut to secure the votes of individual senators. Some of those deals do involve spending programs because they waive certain states' obligation to contribute to the Medicaid program. This selective spending targeted at certain states runs afoul of the general welfare clause. The welfare it serves is instead very specific and has been dubbed "cash for cloture" because it secured the 60 votes the majority needed to end debate and pass this legislation.

A third constitutional defect in this ObamaCare legislation is its command that states establish such things as benefit exchanges, which will require state legislation and regulations. This is not a condition for receiving federal funds, which would still leave some kind of choice to the states. No, this legislation requires states to establish these exchanges or says that the Secretary of Health and Human Services will step in and do it for them. It renders states little more than subdivisions of the federal government.

This violates the letter, the spirit, and the interpretation of our federal-state form of government. Some may have come to consider federalism an archaic annoyance, perhaps an amusing topic for law-school seminars but certainly not a substantive rule for structuring government. But in New York v. United States (1992) and Printz v. United States (1997), the Supreme Court struck down two laws on the grounds that the Constitution forbids the federal government from commandeering any branch of state government to administer a federal program. That is, by drafting and by deliberate design, exactly what this legislation would do.

The federal government may exercise only the powers granted to it or denied to the states. The states may do everything else. This is why, for example, states may have authority to require individuals to purchase health insurance but the federal government does not. It is also the reason states may require that individuals purchase car insurance before choosing to drive a car, but the federal government may not require all individuals to purchase health insurance.

This hardly exhausts the list of constitutional problems with this legislation, which would take the federal government into uncharted political and legal territory. Analysts, scholars and litigators are just beginning to examine the issues we have raised and other issues that may well lead to future litigation.

America's founders intended the federal government to have limited powers and that the states have an independent sovereign place in our system of government. The Obama/Reid/Pelosi legislation to take control of the American health-care system is the most sweeping and intrusive federal program ever devised. If the federal government can do this, then it can do anything, and the limits on government power that our liberty requires will be more myth than reality.

Mr. Hatch, a Republican senator from Utah, is a former chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee. Mr. Blackwell is a senior fellow with the Family Research Council and a professor at Liberty University School of Law. Mr. Klukowski is a fellow and senior legal analyst with the American Civil Rights Union.


Monday, January 4, 2010

Finding "Like-Minded" People

One of the things that has been the hardest about moving was leaving behind a community of home educators that were "like" us. When I decided to begin applying Thomas Jefferson Education (Leadership Education), the key for me was other families that helped me to learn and understand what it was. They helped me along in my infant stages of making the necessary changes in our lives to truly accomplish what I knew was right for our family.

We had the great privilege of being part of Arizona Liber Association of Families (AzLAF) which sort of became Homeschooling with Intention and Purpose (HIP) Arizona. Marly and Chris also attended the Thomas Jefferson Leadership Academy classes which were fabulous. In our new area, we cannot find other TJED homeschoolers. I have tried to start a few things, but it has not worked out yet.

My kids are in the beginnings of the Scholar Phase and need to have like-minded peers. It has been a real issue for us. I found TJED Academy and Prep School, which was started by Rachel and Oliver DeMille (and others). They also provide transcript and portfolio help for getting into college as a homeschooled TJED student, which I'm really looking forward to! I signed Marly up for one class this quarter to give it a try. I'm hoping this will help fill the void left by moving away from the TJED community we had.

Friday, January 1, 2010

A New Year...A New Attitude

I have always had a poor attitude. This is something I have worked on every year as far back as I can remember. I had difficulties in my childhood that accounted for some of it, but I also just wonder if this is one of my personal trials -- to work at a cheerful attitude. I thought I had finally worked through it until this past year.

With all that has happened in 2009, it has been a bigger challenge for me than usual to have a positive attitude. We have had unemployment, we lost our Queen Creek home, we moved to a new city for a new job, we became a foster family, and we struggle every month to pay all of our bills even with both of us working (my job is the foster care). I only mention all these things because I know others struggle too. We are all in this together...as the saying goes. No one is untouched by adversity and no one is free of trials. These are some of ours.

I was struggling this past week with knowing my attitude needed an adjustment and searching for the inner will and desire to make the necessary shift in my thinking and my actions. I have not liked myself lately, and I say that purely out of a desire to change, not a "woe is me" attitude. My saving grace came from my church magazines. We are LDS and receive the Ensign and New Era. I typically go to the Ensign first, but in stead turned to the New Era and read an article entitled "Sticking My Neck Out". This sparked the desire I was looking for. I then poured through the Ensign and read "Hold on a Little Longer". I felt this article was directed solely to me. I needed to "Hold on a Little Longer". I have not lost my faith or hope, but I was not working towards having more faith and more hope either. I was just allowing myself to be stagnant.

I know something great is just around the corner for us. I'm not completely sure what it is, but I have my ideas.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Embarking the Insanity Train

Why is it that I have difficulty handling my schedule? I know I should get rid of some things...but what? Showering?

Here is what a normal weekday looks like...

7:00am Get Kids up, Breakfast
8:00am Seminary Drop-Off (20 minutes each way)
8:30am Foster Kids leave to visit a parent - Mom and Dad have different visitation days.
9:00am Start School w/ Christian
10:30am Seminary Pick-Up (20 minutes each way)
11:00am Start School w/ Marlayna
12:00pm Lunch
12:30pm Back to School
1:15pm Foster Kids arrive home
1:30pm Foster Kids go down for nap
3:00pm Finished with School - Foster Kids get up from Nap
3:15pm Snack Time
3:30pm Appointments - CPS Workers, Counseling, Doctors, Therapy, etc. (Almost every day there is something)
5:30pm Dinner
6:30pm Guitar Classes, Mutual, Scouts, etc.
8:30pm Foster Kids bedtime
10:30pm Mike gets home
Midnight - Bedtime for me if I'm lucky

There is not even time on here to bathe the kids every day. I have to try to wake them up earlier, which makes for very cranky kids, or bathe them only on the nights we do not have anything outside the home...like Monday and Thursday and Sunday. Thank goodness their parents feed them morning snack and lunch.

Fostering is a full-time job...and I don't mean taking care of the kids. I mean the extensive over scheduling! These kids have no down time. They never get to relax. No wonder foster kids have behavior problems. They can never be little kids. They have more appointments than a college student. I had to buy a planner just to keep track of all their meetings, visits with parents, counseling, therapy, doctor appointments, etc. I've decided that fostering is WAY underpaid. I make lass than $1 per hour, per kid to take care of all this stuff. So basically less than $2 an hour. I've been accused of doing this for money...well...you be the judge.

Monday, December 28, 2009

Christmas 2009 Pics

We are not all together often, but when we are I try to get a family picture. My husband refuses to get professional pictures and he hates how he looks in photos. Christian also dislikes having his picture taken. So, it is quite a bit of finagling to get these.



All of Us Together for Christmas 2009

 

Mike and Celeste



Our "True" Selves Shining Through

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Catch-up and Christmas 2009

The Catch-Up
It has been WEEKS since I wrote on our blog. Life has been...well...very, very busy. Since becoming a foster family, we have been constantly sick. The children often arrive sick, have very poor immune systems, and therefore catch everything...bringing their illnesses home to us...getting us all  sick as they are toddlers and have no sense of germ containment. Since Jabber Jaw and Big Boy arrived we have had...
  • Swine Flu
  • Seasonal Flu
  • Brochitis
  • Sinus Infections
  • Colds
  • Stomach Flu
  • ER visits for accidental injuries
It sometimes take up to 3 weeks for the illnesses to run through everyone. By the time we recover there is a new illness making it's way through the family.

Christmas 2009
We had a wonderful Christmas this year. Sam came home for a few days and spent Christmas with us. I had several times when I thought, "This could be the last time it is like this." Sam is an adult and may not come home for Christmas in the future, or she could bring a husband/family with her.

This year we decided to focus on homemade gifts. I wanted our family to put more thought and more of themselves into their gifts. Also, I hoped for each family member to be thankful for what they receive, rather than worry about getting what they want. It was met with mixed reactions at first. Nobody really wanted to spend the time making gifts. But, as time progressed, I saw each person take pleasure in making their gifts. On Christmas morning it was so fun to see each person anxiously await the look on each person's face as they opened the gifts made by them. We had a wide variety of gifts, as each person's talents came into bloom! I'm thankful that I stuck to my guns about the homemade gifts. At one point I almost gave into the complaining. I even had difficulty getting my gifts done since I was so sick with bronchitis, sinus infection, and then stomach flu during the weeks leading up to Christmas.

The main family gift that made a big hit was a Wii Fit Plus. Everyone has been using it and having a lot of fun. I have to say that some of it is really hard! I am very sore! I hope to post some pictures of Christmas soon!

Yea! We're back up!

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